By: Brianna Vargas
Editor-In-Chief
Every school year, there are several school activities students anticipate. One of the most awaited and treasured events is prom.
All year, students prepare themselves for this amazing event. It’s the most formal dance held by the school. It’s so formal, it is
held at a larger venue outside of A-TECH. It is April, which means prom is quickly on its way. Boutiques and tuxedo shops are setting up their stores for the mad rush of high school students that will be swarming in for prom attire.
Limosine companies are beginning to offer discounts for that glamourous night, and flower shops are preparing their corsages
and boutonnieres. Because prom is less than a month away, April is the most frantic month of the year. This is why I have created a step-by-step guide to help those sad few who may end up sitting in the corner at prom dateless and reading a book.
The Date: The first item on your prom to do list is your date. You must decide all the people you may be interested in going to prom with. It may be easier to make a mental list rather than a physical list just to avoid someone accidentally finding it and exposing your most embarrassing choice.
After you have chosen several candidates, you must narrow your options. Talk to the people on your list casually about prom. Do not ask them right away to be your date. They could have already had a date for several months now and would have to completely shut you down. You will want to spare yourself the heartache of rejection.
Talking about prom as if it were just an idea in your mind will help you to decide which candidate is actually interested in going to prom with you.
Once you have finally decided on your choices, bring up the idea of going to prom with that person in an insignificant conversation. If they laugh at you and say you’re funny, do not take that as a sign to proceed and officially ask them to prom. This means they do not want to go and hope you never bring it up again. If this happens, move on to the next on your list and repeat.
The Invitation: Once you have decided whom you will likely go to prom with, it’s time to create a unique way to ask them to prom. Just asking them or telling them, “Hey, were going to prom,” will not suffice.
Instead, you want to try something extravagant that catches their attention. Several years at A-TECH, students have asked their dates to prom during assemblies, especially the Fun assembly. For guys, you must include some kind of token for your date in your invitation plan. Presenting them with a bouquet of roses or their favorite flower can never be a mistake. If they drive, writing a message on their car is also a clever idea.
When making decisions regarding your invitation, you must remember the sky’s the limit, but you must also know your date. If your date is the kind of person that hates being singled out, asking them to prom at an assembly is not the right choice. Instead of flattering them, this may insult or embarrass them, sending you back to square one, without a date.
Color: One of the most important steps to the prom preparation process is choosing your colors. Once you’ve officially asked your date to prom, it’s time to decide what colors look best on both of you. As a girl, your favorite color may be hot pink and you are dying to get a dress in just that color. However, your date may be completely anti-pink and forcing them to wear any shade of pink would ruin their whole night. You must both find compromise.
Although there are thousands of shades and designs for both of you to choose from, don’t be too extravagant. No one wants to see a couple walk into the dance in sequins and glitter.
Attire: The dress code for prom is formal; dresses and heels or dressy flats for girls and tuxedoes for guys. Neither party should wear tennis shoes or boots. It is not an athletic event or a wilderness hike. Save your favorite shoes for your own time.
For girls, the dress is the most important part of prom. The perfect dress at the perfect price is almost impossible to come by. In order to get the perfect dress, you may have to give and take. It may be a little out of your personal price range, but that’s what family’s for. If you need a little help paying for a dress, just ask and explain that going to prom in just any dress is social suicide. Hopefully, they will understand how important that dress really is and will gladly cough up a couple hundred dollars.
Price is important to consider when buying a dress, but it is not the most vital thing. The design of your dress will either make or break your couple attire. A provocative dress doesn’t always give off the right impression but a full length Amish dress doesn’t either. You want to find middle ground, don’t show too much but don’t show too little either.
The Itinerary: Once you’ve decided what to wear, you need to decide where to go and what group to go with. If you’ve never talked to this person before, prom dinner isn’t exactly the best place to begin a new friendship.
Once you’ve decided who you’re going with, you all need to decide where you will go before and after prom. Don’t be to choosy on your restaurant. You want to go to a place that everyone will like and has a great variety to choose from.
Transportation: Transportation is the final step in your prom prep process. Most prom groups rent a party bus or a limousine for their special night. For the fancier couple, renting a nice car may be better than actually renting a limo. There is no wrong choice of transportation, even if you have to take your beat-up old bucket.
Prom creates the best memories of the entire year. It’s the biggest and often most expensive event in high school. For seniors, prom is the finale of their high school career. This is the last time that the entire senior class will be together. Be careful to follow your to-do list precisely and your prom experience will be one you never forget.